Showing posts with label heart. Show all posts
Showing posts with label heart. Show all posts

14 July 2013

The Queen of Summer


The Queen of Cups
Is the Queen of Summer
Her stillness lies within
When sun blazes hot
Her inner calm 
Cools, a northern breeze
The Queen of Cups
Is the Queen of Hearts
Leading by example
The way to cool
When life blazes hot.


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19 September 2012

Q&A: Should I move?

Q: I live in the same small town where I have always lived, except for college. I was recently downsized from a steady job. I'm single, and don't have the family attachments here that I used to have. Moving to find work is fine with me, and right now **** looks promising. On the other hand, I really want to put down roots and raise a family someday soon. Should I stay close to my roots or should I go to where it would be easier to find work?

A. There is a three card reading that I learned from my teacher that is perfect for decisions like this. 

The first card is a yes/no answer to your question, although sometimes (in my experience) it is more helpful to look at it as "maybe" yes or no...you always have options open to you.

The next card is the things working against you...any cautions

The last card is the things working in your favor...advice and encouragement.

When I shuffled the card, the question I kept in mind was should you move. The answer was the 8 of Wands, which means "great potential", "infinity" and "wholeness". I think this means that the world is your oyster...as you said yourself, you are in a perfect position to move, to explore the world. But, in general, this would be read as a no card (aces, cups, coins being associated with yes). BUT...and this is a BIG provision....I don't think it is saying don't move. I think the energy is speaking to the part of your question where you are talking about putting down roots. If you move now...which has a positive feel to it too...it may not be to the place where you wind up putting down roots. Where you move may only be wonderful, but not a forever kind of thing. 

The next card is telling in that respect...the caution card is the Ace of Cups...which has to do with your "inner light"...your inner wisdom, the special things about you, your happiness. I think this card is hinting that the desire for roots and family might be more important than job and money in the long run. If you move, do it to learn what feeds your soul...use your opportunity to move now, to learn about what you want in your long-term place to live...what kind of place can let you give what you want to give to your future family. Use this time to learn what makes you happy and fulfilled...what place feeds your soul. Does the new place speak to you on a deep, spiritual level...or does it show how much home does that for you? That sort of thing. The question is less about finding a job and more about finding your heart a true home. No matter where your "roots" have been in the past, you can put down new roots very easily if a place is comfortable, and right, and really speaks to your heart. If it is really really right...both work and roots will eventually come together in the right place at the right time.

The thing working in your favor is the Wheel of Fortune card, which means change. If you move, and it isn't right, you can always move back. If you stay, and it isn't right, you can still go a little later. You can choose to stay single and unattached, or you can choose to root here if love calls. This card is asking you to be at peace with yourself...the choice of where to live can always be made permanent or it can be undone, to one extent or another. This card has a sense of freshness about it. Again the feeling is a bit in favor of changing countries, changing work...as a journey of discovery...you may find your soul-home out there, which makes the journey important. You may come to realize how much the place you are now means to you...also making the journey important. Economics change. Minds change. If you stay open to change, then you make this into a win-win situation for yourself.

Good Luck!

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29 August 2012

Revisit - Pirate Tarot


Was watching that special effects make-up competition show on television with my daughter last night. I kept having this nagging sense that I should connect that show...the theme was "pirates"...with tarot. Pirate Tarot. Hmm. Couldn't quite connect the dots, despite the fact that I love connecting far-flung dots. My intuition is, that it is a call to roll out Jack Sparrow's compass again, even if it is a fairly recent post. That's the thing about intuition, it doesn't always make any rational sense...and it doesn't have to. To put this hunch in perspective, I try to remember why I do readings and blog about Tarot in the first place...I want to help. Maybe, just maybe, there is somebody somewhere out there who needs that post, but missed it the first time. I don't know. This is where the "trust the process" thing comes into play. So in the spirit of "trust that the universe unfolding as it should" (didn't Richard Bach say that in one of his books?)...here it is, "Captain Jack's Compass":

Have you ever seen any of the "Pirates of the Caribbean" movies? If you have, remember Captain Jack's compass? The one that didn't point north...it pointed the way to his heart's desire, even if he wasn't fully aware of what that really was.

There are moments when we feel like that compass looks...spinning in all directions not sure what to do next. Our usual 'compass' just doesn't work. Religion, psychics, tarot cards...nothing seems to help or just can't give the answer we feel like we disparately need.

Which can mean a couple of things....

Maybe we are asking the wrong question. Maybe we are hanging our happiness on the wrong piece of information.

If you asked Jack Sparrow's compass "which way is north?" you'd get no help whatsoever. If you asked the compass WHAT IS your heart's desire...nothing. Ask it WHERE is your heart's desire...viola! A very precise answer is in your hands.

Psychics and Tarot work a little like Jack Sparrows compass. It can help...it can give you very valuable guidance, but only if you are able to understand the limitations and strengths its guidance can give.

Asking what another person is thinking, or feeling or what they will do is like asking the movie compass which way is north...it just can't give that information, even though it has been made to look like something that can. Jack's compass was made to look like something that could show you which way is north, but it can't. Movies, tv, wishful thinking and fiction has given us the popular notion that psychics and tarot can predict the future or know other people's thoughts and intentions. It can't.

Neither the compass or psychics/tarot can tell you what your heart's desire is. That is up to you to decide. But if you think about it, and get a clear idea of what that desire is (like when Jack focused on looking for the "deadman's chest") then the compass (or psychic/tarot/intuitive work) does a better job of showing you how to get to it.

But, ask the right question...be open to the information the compass / psychics / tarot CAN give...and you get a real, helpful, inspiring answer. Do your part...think, decide what you desire, decide what future you want to create...then psychic tarot readings can give you advice about how to get to it. Psychic tarot can help you find the path to where you want to go.

If someone stays focused on a "where is north" kind of question, then the magic compass will never, ever be able to help. If someone stays focused on knowing what someone else is thinking or feeling or will do, then psychic tarot isn't much help either. That is the gift and strength of psychic work: it shifts our thinking. It guides us to the 'out of the box' way of looking at things. You don't expect a compass to show anything other than direction, and it is infuriating if a compass doesn't tell you which way is north. But if you think out of the box, and realize the magic it DOES have, then you can find treasure. It is frustrating, even infuriating, if tarot readings don't give you the answer you determined to find. But if you are open to the advice psychic tarot CAN give, and not just focused on the one thing you want or expect...then you can find treasure of a different sort. With a little out-of-the-box guidance, you might be able to find what your heart really desires. It may not be a "which way is north" kind of answer, but we can still learn valuable things in unconventional ways when we are open to what psychic tarot can and can't do.

28 August 2012

Today's Tarot - Seven of Cups


The easiest person to lie to is yourself. Being honest with yourself is heart-wrenching, but essential to grow and move forward.

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15 June 2012

The Hermit - Daily Meditation Tarot reading


The heart whispers. Like climbing a tall mountain to learn from a great spiritual master, it is worth the effort to find the time and quiet you need in order to listen when your heart speaks.

07 March 2012

Today's Tarot - 6 of wands

6 of Wands:


Right here, right now, is the the most peaceful place for your heart & mind to be. 


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13 February 2012

Romance, Relationships and the Ace of Cups


At Valentine's Day, those of us who aren't thinking of chocolate are probably thinking of romance one way or another.
  
When it comes to Valentines day and the tarot deck, most people think of "The Lovers" card from the major arcana. When you get to the layers underneath, that card is really about lust, a moment's passion and any strong desire in the abstract. It isn't about finding a real, long-lasting relationship, or about celebrating /preserving such a relationship if we have one.

There are a number of cards that relate to established relationships...cups, wands, even swords, reminding us of wisdom, and loyalty and steadfastness and compassion...the many things that impels us toward wanting a relationship beyond the initial passions of the Lover's card.

All of which begs the question: What card does lead the way to love and romance?

To my way of thinking, it is the Ace of Cups.

That isn't as much of a break with tradition as you may think. Cups cards have long been associated with water, intuition...intuition is a very helpful thing when it comes to affairs of the heart, one place where science and reason doesn't seem to apply as much. Some believe that, historically, the suite of cups in the tarot deck became the hearts suite of our modern gaming card deck because of that connection with the heart. I can't believe that it is just coincidence that "heart" is associated with generic love (I heart NY t-shirts), romance (see everything Valentine's related) AND intuition (a.k.a. "follow your heart").

Ace of Cups means "let your inner light shine". It has to do with your own inner voice, your inner knowing, your true self.

So what does that have to do with finding true love?

The best way to attract your best mate is to be your true self. Being your true self is the path to true love...not hunting, posturing, lusting or any of the other difficult lessons associated with the "Lover's" card. (Although those things can play a part in the early stages of the relationship, it may not help much in finding it in the first place).
There are old and respected spiritual principles at play here. We've all heard of it:
First there is "like attracts like" and "birds of a feather flock together". If you LIVE to show who you are, then it is easier for a truly compatible person to find you.

Second there is what some call the "Rule of Threes"...what you give to the universe returns to you threefold. What goes around, comes around...do unto others and all that. So if you wallow in loneliness and focus on what you don't have, what will or won't MAY be...then you can make yourself pretty miserable, pretty fast. Miserable attracts miserable.

If you want love an happiness in your live...then love and be happy. Only YOU can do that for yourself.  ONLY you can make you happy, if you let yourself. If you are loving and happy, you attract loving and happy. The ace of cups trumps the lovers and you win. Easier said than done, it's true, but simple just the same.

I wouldn't blog if I didn't really think it, and I believe it because I've lived it.

The best example I can give you is my own. In my 20s I was working hard being the "good" person that I was always taught was a "good" person...working hard at a social-service kind of job, going the extra mile at church, even serving as a council member and liturgical deacon at one point. I handbell choir, cooked, danced, cleaned and did all the things I was supposed to do to be what I was supposed to be...but what I wound up being was cheated on, alone , bone-crushingly lonely, and miserable.

Be it luck, destiny, or divine intervention, I began to see another way and CHOSE to walk another path.  I the religion that I found to be empty and un-helpful, started on a spiritual path that made sense and helped me be happy. I got a new job that still served, but was more secular / scientific about it, and started studying Chinese martial arts, taoist philosophy, read about Buddhism, and started to do the things that I loved, being who I really was, and focused on building a good life for myself. 

Then I met my soulmate, the light and love of my life, the one who matters most...my husband Jon...in Kung Fu class. Who would've thought. Then came our daughter, and the time to blog, and the rest, as they say, is history.

So this Valentine's week, my best advice to everyone...in a romantic relationship or not....is simply this: Love Life, and it will love you back. Someone else just might love you back too.


10 May 2011

Decide using both sides of your brain

Tarot is a very spiritual thing

It deals with ethics, intangibles, decisions, emotions...but little science outside the concepts of probability, uncertainty, and time as an extant 4th dimension...

So often intuitive work is dismissed or even aggressively opposed by the science community.

At the same time, many focus only on intuition, aggressively clinging to the old notion of fate and predictions, actively surrendering their power to the unproven and unknown.

To choose one way over the other is unbalanced. To choose science over intuition or intuition over science is to miss half of what is going on. The real truth, as I see it, contains both.

To make a good decision, the best decision...about anything, be it career, romance, relationships or general guidance...the best decision comes from a middle-way, balanced consideration of both.

Holism applies. Taking a holistic approach gives the best of both worlds.

This is a logical world, and a logical biased society. Deciding only on the basis of psychic perception means a high risk of failure.

If you live your life based on science and logic and hard facts alone, then you risk emotional starvation. Life is thin and grey without beauty and creativity, and at risk for emotional consequences.

Science does not discount beauty. Spirituality does not discount logic and common sense.

Humans were born...evolved...with BOTH aspects manifested in hard reality in our neural structure. Left-brained logic and right-brained creativity are both utterly necessary. In a world of logic-bias, Tarot, oracles, psychics and the like are tools to help us listen to our right-brains, to help us access the balance and advice the right-brain, our hearts and the subtle spiritual aspects of life have to offer. Tarot and psychic work adds color and depth to life, as does any spiritual endeavor.

Next big decision, use common sense. Next big decision, listen to your heart. Both.

Baihu

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19 August 2010

Time in a Cup

Tarot card: Five of Cups

The painful losses that are sometimes associated with the 5 of cups is closely related to the perceptions we saw yesterday with the knight of coins.

Change is enevitable. It is the one thing in life we can true count on. It is normal, natural, and expected to regret losing the things that give us pleasure. No one wants to lose someone or something they truly love.

This card does not, in any way, chide or contradict us for mourning our losses. If anything it acknowledges and validates that normal sense of grief and mourning. There is nothing wrong with reminiscence and honoring past experiences, past feelings. There is nothing wrong with the normal mourning process. If anything, problems come when we rush or suppress that process. Some people are hardwired to work through it in an eyeblink. Others take more time to recover. Another way things can go wrong is if the process is stalled...when we become interminably inconsolable.

When the 5 of cups comes along, it also asks us to look at our mental outlook and mind-set. The knight of coins reminds us of the power we have to co-create our world through our perception of our world. The 5 of cups is a bit more specific. It looks at the unavoidable, it is a hand on the shoulder recognizing the pain being felt, and offers a bit of human sympathy and commisuration.

If the 5 of cups resonates with you today, what is it you miss, mourn or have lost? Are you allowing yourself to feel the loss, and grieve as you need? Are you wallowing in the loss, so much so that this card has come to remind you that loss is normal, natural, but can not stop us from living?

When change comes, I like to think of time - in a quantum physics sort of way. Time is a whole thing...all time exists all at once. We just experience one thread of it one moment at a time. The rest of it is still out there.

I like to think of it as spinning yarn or thread. And collapsing probability waves.

The past still exists, our consciousness has just moved beyond it, like yarn we've already spun and is in the center of a ball of yarn behind us...we don't see it, it is wrapped up and obscured by more recent events - we can't touch see or experience it, but it is there. We can touch it and experience it only through love and memory, but it is still there.

The future has infinite possibilities...many, many fibers and filaments for us to choose...the future is a whole entire field of cotton. It too exists, right now, all at once. Through our choices, we select from all the possible fibers, and spin them into our NOW. We choose, we collapse the future possibilities into the tangible present. In the next second that bit of spinning becomes part of the past, part of the yarn we have created.

The life we spin is ever changing. It is hard to move down the thread and let the past threads go, especially those we most cherish.

It is exciting to know we can spin the most beautiful yarn we can from the cotton we are given.

If we cling to old yarn, the thread becomes tangled as the new is spun...the spinning wheel never stops...so long as there is life, there is movement and change.

Loss hurts...but what is ever really lost? Material things are impermanant anyway. The memories they contain are ours forever, with our without them. The past still exists just outside our grasp, but love that is felt never fades. The golden time still exists where it was, no matter how things are now. Golden times may yet come, may yet be spun from shining new fibers.

Circumstances change. People leave. Feelings change and fade. Love may spin farther away in time and space, but it is never lost. We sense it in a different way, as it touches our heart in a different way. Different isn't lost. Different isn't gone.

How you spin, and the life you weave is up to you. The memories, the love is always yours.

16 October 2009

6 of CUPS

Quiet empathy and simple validation can begin to fill an empty heart.

Baihu
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18 September 2009

THE TOWER

The Tower: In chaos lies opportunity. Get a higher perspective to see clearly. When you let go of attachment and emotion, and get "above the battle" as a king in a tower, overlooking the land, then you can see with both heart and mind what must be done.

28 August 2009

6 of Coins

6 of coins: Compassion - the ultimate measure of all things, understood my the heart, elusive to the mind.

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