Showing posts with label 7 of cups. Show all posts
Showing posts with label 7 of cups. Show all posts

31 December 2012

Tarot 2013



Have predictions jumped the shark yet?

I've been saying it like a broken record for years: Tarot doesn't make predictions. Nothing can. You heard George Lucas' Yoda - the future is always in motion. Stephanie Myers was right on target with Alice in "Twilight" too - when someone changes their mind, the "vision" changes. I think Doctor Who said it best in the "Cold Earth" episode written by Chris Chibnall "The future turns around you, here, now, so do good".

Predictions do no good that I can see. A "prediction" seeds a specific idea that may or may not be for a person's highest good.  It locks in the psychic's vision of the future...no the person who sought guidance in the first place. Predictions weaken choice and narrows vision. It can heap stress on an already stressful situation if the "prediction" is frightening or un-nerving in any way.

I believe that inutitive work of any kind...psychic readings, tarot, palms, tea leaves, anything... should do the exact opposite. Intuition should widen our vision, show other possibilities we've missed, give us more choices, ease stress and soothe emotions. "Accurate predictions" have no place in that. That's why I won't do readings like that, even though it has lost clients and money for me over the years.

I'm hoping 2013 is the year that REAL intuitive work comes into its own. Maybe with the whole rediculous December 21 doomsday thing behind us, and having survived the mellinium, asteroid fly-bys and the end of twinkies, maybe, just maybe we can all get over the idea of PREDICTING the future and get down to the work of CREATING a better future.

Sure, predictions are fun, especially at the New Year. Truth is, even the most choice-and-guidance oriented of us will indulge in making predictions for the New Year. It's a game, a plaything, an entertainment, as much for us as our readers. It stretches the mental muscles that help us do our more important work, just like playing a physical game can help your physical fitness.

This year I'm going to play a different game. Instead of indulging in the straight "cold reading" kind of thing, I'm going to do a "Four Seasons" reading for the year 2013. The "Four Seasons" is my home-made reading style that sticks with the idea of guidance, but still gives that 'look ahead' feeling that we naturally crave, that need to know that naturally drives humans to want to see the future in the first place. Each card isn't a prediction, but instead is a theme for the season, or an important idea / choice that may come to you during that time. Of course, this reading isn't going to match everyone. It's just for fun, but if it makes sense to you, or helps someone, somewhere along the way...all the better. Happy 2013! 

General Pattern: three major arcana cards with only one minor arcana card suggest that we may be faced with more choices, changes, and   in the first part of the year compared to the second part. Again, not a prediction, but pointing toward the way things are trending - like a compass needle points north. It doesn't predict what will happen or what people will do...just the direction things are headed. 

Winter (Jan. - March ) - THE MOON: On the Rider-Waite deck, the Moon card  shows dogs or cayotes looking / howling at the moon, with a lobster crawling out of the water onto a path that extends to the mountains in the distance. The phrases "howl at the moon" and "evolve" come to mind. The 'howl at the moon' part connects with the idea of authenticity...the advice here is to be true to yourself, be your truest self. This winter may ask us to be more honest with ourselves than ever before - and when we are more honest with ourselves, it leads to more honesty and open-ness with others. It is a difficult thing to do, and can cause us to lose some people we used to think were friends...but shines like a light to truer friendships, and helps us find our real community. When faced with a choice in this season, think about what you honestly want to happen not what you honestly think is the best thing for everyone ... not what you think is the expected answer. All of this also links with evolution...not the physical kind that makes so many people twitchy...the personal growth kind that shows we can learn, adapt, adopt new ideas, ideals, and find a better way to do things. My mind is drawn to the national debate about marriage rights. Perhaps it is time for the nation to 'evolve' on social issues en masse.

Sping (April - June) THE FOOL (INNOCENT): This is the very first card of the tarot deck. In very old calendars, the first of April was considered to be the beginning of the new year instead of January. Springtime is still the beginning of the year in some cultures. Urban legend has it that April Fools day started after the change from the Julian to the Gregorian calenday that switched the beginning of the year from April to January. Those that continued to celebrate the old way were teased as "April Fools" (www.snopes.com). The message here is that Spring 2013 will be a chance to relax and play and de-stress a little, as we look forward to new beginnings and fresh starts. Spring naturally carries a sense of renewal and optimism. My hunch is that we can make it larger, more pervasive than usual, like the phrase "renewed national optimism". I think this may extend to national policy and economy despite continued international policy and diplomacy concerns in the background. The advice here is to make the hopeful choices, and to avoid choices based in fear. "He who hesitates is lost". This does not feel like the time for ultra-conservatism, philosophically or politically.

Summer (July - Sept)-7 of Cups: Pendulums will swing. The 7 of cups is sometimes read as "delusion". In this case, the connotation would be more along the lines of "take care to see clearly". Don't get carried away with the spring's optimism. This is a season of pragmatism, practicality, watching, and carrying through with what was begun in spring. In spring, seeds are planted. In summer, we don't do much with those seeds except tend them...watch, water, weed, wait.  It is a time to face what we can not control. What's done is done. Do what you can. This season teaches the comfort of seeing things as they are, and focusing on here and now.

Autumn (Oct. - Dec.) HIgh Priestess: And the pendulum comes full swing, and things go a full circle in a single, dizzying year. The feeling of watching the seeds grow changes to a feeling of springing into action for the harvest, and reaping what we've sown in spring - literally and figuratively. It feels like a busy time too, the lesson here is to "stop and smell the roses"...where the Moon card pointed to spiritual growth, the Priestess card points to the new destination...asks us to appreciate where we have grown TO. We've cleaned house, added on a room, planted a garden and stored the harvest for winter...this is the season for gratitude, to stop and survey what we've accomplished, and plan our next step. This season is a reminder to remember the spiritual side of things, as much as possible to experience the magic, mystery, and mystical side of life. After all the activity of spring planting and fall harvest, things start to fall back toward watching...this time watching the full moon through the trees, looking inward instead of outward. 

General summary: This year will see full cycles compleated at a rapid pace. It will generally follow the cycles and pace of nature, perhaps more closely than society has for several years. I feel pushed to say the "rise of the nones" will continue...nones meaning those from the Pew survey who do not participate in any religion, yet maintaina robust spiritual life. Tolerance will evolve, and we begin to see a generational shift in the way we all look at the world. Letting us have a brightness andoptimism we haven't really seen in the past 10 -15 years. There is a feeling of Korea being in the news again, in a sunny season like spring or summer. I get the mental image of a knit hat in Jamaca's national colors and hear "rasta" and a feeling of fun...maybe a new popularity for Reggae or Reggae influenced music, like The Police in the 80s. Winter weather in the northeast feels crisp, cold and white...but not storms, just normal. There is a feeling of drought in the midwest again this summer, but in a smaller area than last year. Something about whales and the west coast...very large whales like blue or humpbacks, perhaps a rare and special sighting of some sort.  Now I see the "time vortex" from the Doctor Who opening sequence...either the Doctor Who  50th anniversary season will be a gigantic hit in the US as much as all the Whovians are hoping, or people really will come to a new understanding of time, predictions, probablilities and all of that quantum theory can teach us. More confirmation of the Higgs boson from Cern perhaps.  Overall, I feel upbeat and optimistic energy around 2013.

Ok, so I couldn't resist playing a little with that last paragraph...but why not? Play is a wonderful thing, but it isn't everything. Dessert is a wonderful thing, but we can't eat only sweets. Predictions are fun, but they are only a small, entertaining part of things.

Wishing everyone a happy, healthy, safe and prosperous 

28 August 2012

Today's Tarot - Seven of Cups


The easiest person to lie to is yourself. Being honest with yourself is heart-wrenching, but essential to grow and move forward.

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16 April 2012

Today's Tarot - 7 of Cups


Thinking you are lucky is halfway to being lucky


"Life is a mirror and will reflect back to the thinker what he thinks into it." - Ernest Holmes


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09 April 2012

Today's Tarot - 7 of Cups

Choices have consequences as well as benefits. The good news is that choices have benefits as well as consequences. When one out weighs the other, the choice is clear. When both are equal, or the benefits and consequences are unknown, the choice becomes agonizing. Times such as that is when a little help and guidance can make all the difference. This is where intuition and oracles can give their greatest help. It is all about choices, not predictions. 


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21 October 2011

Daily Meditation Tarot Reading - 7 of Cups

If you are in the middle of a paradox, look for places where you need greater balance. A paradox is a cry for balance, not the need to eradicate one thing or the other.






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14 April 2011

How often should I get a psychic or tarot reading?

Q. How often should I get readings?

A. When clients ask this, I always say it is up to each individual to decide that for themselves, with one caution...too many is usually more detrimental than too few.

The 7 of cups speaks to this when it talks about delusion. Connect that to the idea of projecting expectations onto a reading instead of listening to what the reading has to say, and you get the general reason why this is so.

It is said that the essence of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different outcome. The insanity in psychic readings comes when you do the same thing over and over and DO get different outcomes. Getting lots of readings about one question can lead to confusion, and many times can feed the delusion that brings you there to begin with.

If you keep asking the same question...the answer isn't as important as WHY you can't/won't let it go. WHY, if you can't accept the answer, did you want a reading in the first place? Why not just trust your own instincts? What if all the readings you get keep giving different answers? Which one do you believe? Why do you trust one persons reading and not another?

Is it because they are really more trustworthy or is just because they finally told you the only answer you were willing to hear all along? If you aren't willing to hear the lessons in those other readings, why did you get them?

True enough, sometimes a reading will be totally off, totally wrong, and make us recoil from a certain idea...then, like a traffic warning sign, that shows us where NOT to go, and is the direction we needed. Case closed.

True enough, readings are just snapshots in time, not predictors of enevitable fate...so if a situation is dynamic and changing, the readings will change in time right along with the situation. This is to be expected, but it also adds to confusion instead of adding clarity to a complex or changing situation.

True enough, sometimes it takes a succession of readings or a variety of readers that you disagree with to really teach you to trust your own instincts of what rings true and what doesn't...but there is an element of risk in learning that way. The risk is getting caught up in your own delusion, of persisting in an untrue belief, even if you know it is the wrong path, and just shopping around for someone to back you up on what you want to believe, not what actually IS.

One of the arguments against psychic readings and other forms of energy healing is that it promotes dependency...that it encourages the individual to rely on the reader / practitioner. That may be true in some cases...I've had clients new to the area say they will be "loyal" and come for "regular" readings, like they did with the psychics they saw in other cities.

As much as I would like the cash flow, I tell them no, just follow their own instincts about when they need a reading and when they don't. I don't think this kind of work encourages dependence when done properly. An ETHICAL psychic or an ETHICAL reiki practitioner or what have you, someone who really wants to HELP would strive to empower the ones they work with. To make other people un-necessarily. A good psychic, in a way, is like a good parent...you help when it is needed, sometimes when it isn't, but one of the things you teach is self-sufficiency.

So pick up your jacket, turn off the lights when you leave a room and close the refrigerator door already.

Don't flounder or feel alone...get a reading when you need one, certainly. But don't get another until you have fully digested the first. It's back to the mom thing...eat your vegetables THEN you can have dessert. Learn all you can from one reading, give it some time to unfold, then if you still need some guidance, try again.

This will help you avoid the pitfall of 'beating a dead horse' as the old adage goes. If you get focused on one answer, only accept what you want to hear, get locked up in one place instead of growing and learning...well, the learning isn't going to get easier by doing that. The lesson will be heard. Steps will make themselves be taken...the universe will put the gift of learning in front of you to stumble over until you open that gift.

Listen, learn, follow your heart...and the exactly right number of readings will happen.

Baihu

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11 January 2011

7 of cups

Look at a situation from ALL points of view to understand it clearly and avoid delusion. Don't rely on your own way of thinking all the time. No one idealology, political viewpoint, dogma can be the end-all and be-all of everything. Try to see other people's point of view to see clearly.